Where Did Birthdays Come From?

Birthdays are something we all love to celebrate, but have you ever wondered where the idea came from? Let’s take a fun journey through history to learn about how birthdays started and why they’re so special today.
How It All Began
1. The Egyptians: Where It Started
A long, long time ago, in ancient Egypt, people didn’t celebrate regular birthdays like we do now. Instead, they celebrated when their pharaohs (kind of like kings) were crowned. Egyptians believed that becoming a pharaoh made you a god, so it was a pretty big deal! These celebrations were filled with ceremonies, statues, and big parties.
2. The Mesopotamians: Stars and Birthdays
The people of Mesopotamia and Sumer (some of the earliest civilizations) were all about the stars. They believed that the position of the stars and planets could affect your life, even your birthday! This is where some of the earliest ideas about astrology began.
The Greeks: Cakes and Candles
The Greeks brought something we all love: birthday cakes! They made round cakes to honor Artemis, the goddess of the moon. The candles on the cakes were meant to shine like moonlight and send wishes to the gods. How cool is that? The Greeks also believed in horoscopes, thinking that the stars at your birth could tell your future.
The Romans: Big Birthday Parties

The Romans took birthdays to the next level. Here’s what they did:
- For Everyone: Unlike the Egyptians and Greeks, Romans believed everyone’s birthday was worth celebrating—not just kings or gods.
- Gifts and Feasts: They threw big parties with lots of food, wine, and presents.
- Milestones: Turning 50 was extra special and called for an even bigger celebration.
Religious Views on Birthdays
1. Christianity: No Birthdays at First
Early Christians didn’t celebrate birthdays because they thought it was a pagan (non-religious) tradition. Instead, they celebrated "name days," which were linked to saints. But later, Christmas (Jesus’s birthday) changed how Christians felt about celebrating birthdays.
2. Judaism: Celebrating Life Events
In Jewish tradition, birthdays weren’t a big deal historically. Instead, milestones like bar and bat mitzvahs—celebrating when a child becomes an adult in the community—were more important. Today, many Jewish people celebrate birthdays just like everyone else.
Birthdays in Medieval and Renaissance Times
1. The Middle Ages: Only for the Rich
During the Middle Ages, most people didn’t celebrate birthdays because of religious beliefs. But kings, queens, and nobles still threw fancy parties to show off their wealth and power.
2. The Renaissance: Birthdays Are Back
During the Renaissance (a time of art and learning), people started celebrating birthdays again. Wealthy families would use astrology to make personalized horoscopes for their kids and have big celebrations.
3. Kids’ Birthdays Begin
The idea of kids having birthday parties started in Germany with something called "Kinderfest." This included cakes, candles, and gifts just for kids. It was all about making children feel special.
Birthday Traditions Around the World
- China: In China, people eat long noodles on their birthdays to symbolize a long life. Turning 60 is extra important because it marks the end of one zodiac cycle and the start of another.
- India: Many people in India celebrate by visiting temples and doing special prayers to get blessings for the year ahead.
- Latin America: A girl’s 15th birthday, called a Quinceañera, is a huge celebration marking her journey into adulthood.
- Africa: In many African cultures, birthdays aren’t as important as community milestones or coming-of-age ceremonies.
- Japan: Kids aged 3, 5, and 7 have a special day called Shichi-Go-San, where they wear fancy clothes and visit shrines.
Calendars and Birthdays
We wouldn’t be able to celebrate birthdays without calendars! Here’s how they helped:
- Lunar Calendars: Early civilizations used the moon to track time.
- Solar Calendars: The Romans created the Julian calendar, making birthdays easier to track.
- Gregorian Calendar: This calendar, used today, made tracking dates even more accurate.
The Industrial Revolution: Birthdays for Everyone

During the 18th and 19th centuries, birthday traditions became more popular thanks to:
- Mass Production: Birthday cards, candles, and decorations became easy to buy.
- Sharing Traditions: People started learning about other cultures’ birthday customs through travel and trade.
- Middle-Class Celebrations: Birthdays became a regular thing for everyday families.
Modern Birthday Fun
Today, birthdays are celebrated all over the world, and some things have become universal:
- The Birthday Song: "Happy Birthday to You" is sung in almost every language!
- Social Media: Platforms like Facebook remind everyone of your birthday, making it easy to get lots of wishes.
- Commercialization: From cards to cakes, businesses love helping people celebrate birthdays.
Fun Birthday Facts
- Most people are born in September, with September 9 being the most common birthday.
- February 29 birthdays are rare because they only happen in leap years.
- Blowing out candles started in ancient Greece to send wishes to the gods.
- Queen Elizabeth II celebrates two birthdays: her real one in April and an official one in June.
Why Are Birthdays Special?
Birthdays remind us how far we’ve come and give us a chance to celebrate with the people we care about. Whether it’s a simple cake or a big party, it’s all about feeling loved and appreciated. So, next time your birthday rolls around, enjoy it—you deserve it!